In the wee hours of the morning last Tuesday, I received a phone call. It was my sister. She had just been notified that my dad was killed instantly in an auto accident on Monday evening. He was returning home from a doctor’s appointment when a semi pulled out into the southbound lanes of Highway 41 near Evansville, Indiana. It was dark. For some reason Dad never saw the flatbed trailer. The Evansville local news reported the story.
Most of you who know me personally already know about our loss. I could never possibly thank you enough for the many expressions of love and concern that you’ve showered on my family. I know that the Lord himself will reward your love and kindness.
Obviously, I haven’t felt much like writing lately, and may not for a while. The purpose of this post is simply to honor Dad and provide you with a link to his obituary, which I’ll do in a minute. Dad was generous, hard-working, and bright. He was a caring father to my brother and sister and I, and a loving grandpa. He will be sorely missed.
I wish I didn’t have to say this, but I do. Life is fragile, and will one day end for each one of us. I plead with you to be prepared for your own unavoidable date with death—”it is appointed for man to die once, and after that comes judgment…” (Hebrews 9:27). Repent of your sin and follow Christ. There is no other way to be prepared for that day.
Here is Dad’s obituary. If you want, you can share a story about Dad, upload a picture, or read (and sign) his guest book. We would love to hear from you: In Memory of Sanford Ray “Stan” Wallace
So sorry for your loss. I don’t know you personally, but follow on Twitter and I lost my mom this summer. It’s never easy to lose a parent. Unexpectedly they are gone – its so final, and you feel in many ways like you are gone as well. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I’m sorry for your tragic loss.
Barry,
I’m saddened to hear of your loss. I’ll be praying for you through this process of grief. God Bless you brother!
Barry, so sorry for your loss. May God grant you peace and fill your mind with precious memories of love and joy to comfort you and yours in days ahead. selahV
Barry, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Very sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry, Barry. I will pray as you mourn and seek rest in Christ. Life is fragile and these are the worst kind of reminders. I know we don’t know each other well, but my heart breaks for you. Love ya, brother.
I’m so sorry, Barry. What a dreadful loss. I pray you will find peace and comfort in Christ through it all.
Barry,
I can’t imagine how heartbreaking and difficult this is. My family will be praying.
Your friend in Christ,
Derek
Barry:
Sorry to read of this difficult providence. You and your family are in my prayers.
Grace and peace,
Nathan.
Barry,
Love you, thinking of you, praying for you.
I’m sorry for the delayed response, but I want each of you to know how grateful I am for the love and thoughts and prayers you’ve extended to me and to my family. Today, Thanksgiving, I’m grateful for my brothers and sisters in Christ.
Barry, I just found your blog through the carnival website and I know it’s late, but I wanted to express my regret for the loss of your dad. I lost my grandfather a few weeks before your dad died and while it was of natural causes, I do understand this sort of pain as I lost my sister to a car accident six years ago. I know everyone has to grieve thier own way, so I may not be able to help, but if you’re still dealing with this, please know that I’m willing to offer an ear.
Dan, thank you for your kind note. I was touched and humbled and encouraged by it. People like you who’ve taken the time to express their concern and compassion have meant so much to me. I’m very sorry to hear about your sister, too, and pray that the Lord comforts you and your family greatly. Thanks again, my brother. I just sent you a Facebook friend request.
I’m so sorry, my brother. I know this happened a while ago and I don’t come by your blog often enough. Thanks for all your writing. it’s a blessing!
have a grace filled weekend
No need to apologize, Paul. Thanks so much for your kind words. Many blessings to you, too.