Why do we make covenants?
Matt, in his comment on my last post, asked why I thought churches should have covenants at all. That’s a good question.
Men like John Piper and Mark Dever and others have already made careful, thorough arguments for the use of church covenants. I don’t think that I can improve on what they’ve written, and I don’t intend to try. I’ll link to those at some point in this series so you can read them for yourself.
Having said that, though, I want to try to answer Matt’s question using a somewhat different approach than I’ve seen elsewhere. I want to offer a rationale, composed of three different strands of thought–biblical, practical, and historical–for making and using church covenants. To keep this to a reasonable length, I’ll only consider the biblical strand today. My goal is to establish that generally speaking, it’s good and right to make covenants.
A biblical rationale for making covenants
I want to make a simple statement that I think is biblical, in the sense that it’s an assumption that underlies all of Scripture and one that is rooted in the very character of God. Here’s the statement: The natural and normal impulse of love is to enter into covenant. I don’t think I had ever thought about that in those exact terms until a couple of years ago while studying the life of David. I’ll come back to that in a few minutes.
God makes covenants
First, I want to point out that it’s clear in Scripture that God makes covenants. We could probably say at the outset, then, that in some sense, making covenants is a godly characteristic. Furthermore, it seems that the covenants God makes are primarily expressions of His love. He makes covenants with Adam and Noah and Moses and Abraham and David and ultimately with the church, through the blood of His own Son, all because of His great love for His people. So when I say that the natural and normal impulse of love is to enter into covenant, I believe that’s true first and foremost of God Himself.
God’s people have always acknowledged the fact that covenant love is an essential attribute of God. At the dedication of the temple Solomon stood and prayed, “O Lord, God of Israel, there is no God like you, in heaven above or on earth beneath, keeping covenant and showing steadfast love to your servants who walk before you with all their heart” (1 Kings 8:23).
Solomon prayed that way because God had revealed Himself repeatedly throughout Israel’s history as a God of covenant love: “Know therefore that the Lord your God is God, the faithful God who keeps covenant and steadfast love with those who love him and keep his commandments, to a thousand generations” (Deut. 7:9).
Men make covenants
It’s also clear in Scripture that it’s natural and normal for men to make covenants. And they do so for a variety of reasons, and in a variety of circumstances. For a couple of examples, see Abraham’s covenant with Abimelech (Gen 21:22-32), and David’s covenant with the elders of Israel (2 Sam 5:1-3).
One of the high points of the Old Testament occurs in Nehemiah 9 when the people of Israel, under the leadership of Ezra and Nehemiah, confess their sins and together make a solemn covenant. It’s a very dramatic and moving moment in the history of Israel.
The passage in Nehemiah is interesting for another reason, too. There seems to be a connection in Nehemiah 9 between the covenant keeping nature of God, and the covenant making inclinations of Israel’s leaders. I take that from Nehemiah 9:32, 38– “because of all this” (v. 38); because (among other things) God “keeps covenant and steadfast love” (v. 32), therefore “we make a firm covenant in writing” (v. 38 again).
I want to take a minute to explore that connection.
I’d like to suggest that men make covenants precisely because they are created in the image of a covenant making God. Every human quality that’s not a result of sin is a reflection, however dim, of God’s image in man (Genesis 1:26-27). Human characteristics and tendencies do not just appear out of nowhere. We are creative because we’re made in the image of a creative God. We are relational because we’re made in the image of a relational God. And we make covenants because we’re created in the image of a covenant making God.
David and Jonathan
I want to look briefly at one more biblical covenant. The story of this particular covenant is told, for the most part, in 1 Samuel 18-20. My original premise, that the natural and normal impulse of love is to enter into covenant, is beautifully illustrated in the story of Jonathan and David.
As soon as he had finished speaking to Saul, the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul. And Saul took him that day and would not let him return to his father’s house. Then Jonathan made a covenant with David, because he loved him as his own soul. And Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him and gave it to David, and his armor, and even his sword and his bow and his belt (1 Samuel 18:1-4).
The covenant between David and Jonathan is both the logical result and the natural expression of their love for one another. When I studied these chapters a couple of years ago, I came across a penetrating question by Bob Deffinbaugh: “Why would two men, who love each other as brothers, not be willing to make commitments that they vow to keep forever?” That’s a good question, and it begs another. Why would the members of a local church, who love each other as brothers, not be willing to make commitments that they vow to keep forever?
1 Samuel 18:1 says that “the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as his own soul.” Both of those phrases have strikingly similar counterparts in the New Testament. In Colossians 2:2 Paul prays that the believers hearts would be “knit together in love” (the soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David); and in Rom 13:9 Paul repeats the familiar command, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Jonathan loved him as his own soul).
Perhaps in some way the covenant between Jonathan and David stands as a model for the local church. Like those two godly men, we in the church need to have our souls knit together, loving our brothers and sisters as ourselves, gladly committing our lives to God and each other by covenant.
Conclusion
I haven’t quite answered the question of why we should make church covenants, but I hope I’ve laid the necessary groundwork for answering it. Does the Bible command us to make church covenants? No. But is it biblical to make church covenants? I’ve argued that it is.
John Piper, in a sermon from his series on church covenants, made this observation:
The Bible does not say explicitly, “Thou shalt have a written church covenant,” any more than it says, “Thou shalt have marriage licenses,” or, “Thou shalt have wedding rings.”
…One way to look at it is that a church without a covenant is like a marriage without vows. Marriage vows are not spelled out in the Bible just like church covenants aren’t. Both follow necessarily from the nature of the relationships.
I think that’s much the same as saying that in marriages as well as in churches, the natural and normal impulse of love is to enter into covenant.
My goal in this post was to demonstrate that it’s good and right and biblical to make covenants. To support that goal I tried to show that love leads naturally to committing ourselves to those we love; and that the inclination to make covenant commitments exists in our hearts precisely because we are created in the image of a covenant making God.
I believe that once those general principles are recognized and accepted, it becomes apparent that the impulse to make church covenants is profoundly biblical.









This is an excellent post! This is a perspective I’ve not really considered before. It makes me think about how I regard our church covenant. I look forward to the next installment in this series.
Well written and well thought out post, Barry.
How awesome is it that we serve a covenant making and covenant keeping God??
It makes me wonder what exactly was said in the covenant between David and Jonathan.
Barry,
Great post. I like the connection that you make and although you didn’t explicitly answer the question you did do a great job laying a theological groundwork.
Sorry, I keep asking questions, but what, if anything, do you think a church loses by not having a church covenant?
Jennifer, Mark Dever has helped a lot of churches recover the importance of church membership. I pray that trend will continue.
Matt, I appreciate your questions. They’re helping me to think through the issues. Before directly answering them, though, I felt it was important to give a biblical rationale for making covenants. In my next post, I’ll try to address practical concerns.
In the mean time, I think Jennifer has already given a good basic answer. It would probably also be helpful to ask another question before answering this one. Since Piper has already drawn a parallel (valid, I think) between marriage vows and church covenants, what, in your opinion, would a marriage lose by not having vows?
Isaac… awesome beyond words
James and Laurie, as always, your kindness and encouragement are greatly appreciated.
Great Biblical foundation! My husband would be proud…
I think to understand why churches benefit from covenants you first have to understand church membership and what it really means. I believe Mark Dever said that recently churches have made it very easy to join and very hard to leave, meaning they accept virtually everyone into membership and leave them on the roll until they’re forced to take them off. In my opinion, we ought to seek the opposite – be certain that your members know Christ and are seeking Him by consistently serving the church. And if you pastor them enough to care for their souls and they still refuse to be a serving member of the church, they should be free to leave and encouraged to find a church where they can serve.
That being said, it’s a common belief today that church membership is nothing more than having your name on a roll. My husband enjoyed “Stop Dating the Church” by Joshua Harris, which speaks to this idea that there is no covenant, no commitment on the part of a lot of church “members.” I think a church covenant (while not biblically mandated, as Piper stated above) is a fantastic evidence and expression of your commitment to your local body of believers. And to respond to Matthew’s question, I believe a church without a covenant doesn’t feel the weight of its membership.
this was helpful for me to stumble upon…have a healthy and vibrant and longstanding covenant friendship with two other women and a fourth friend wants to be a part but is rejecting the idea of joining or coming under the covenant. She is wanting the fun stuff, encouragement and prayer support, but doesn’t want the hard stuff…ie commitment, self sacrifice, urgent need to resolve conflict and the freedom to be confrontational about each other’s sin. The hard stuff.
not sure what to say to her…but thanks for the reminder of Jonathan’s and David’s covenant. Such a beautiful picture of being bound together in friendship. Of course, absolutely, the covenant I share with my husband is similar to a friendship covenant but infinitely richer and more intimate. So thankful our God leads the way always in how to love well and with abundance.
I believe we were designed by God for covenant relationships, but often avoid them precisely because we don’t want the commitment and accountability that go along with them. We avoid those relationships to our own detriment. Thanks for commenting. I’m glad you were encouraged by the reminder of Jonathan and David’s covenant friendship. May God help us all to be covenant people.
Hmmm, I posted earlier there about my friend who isn’t interested in joining a covenant. We are still trying to walk this out with her before God.
But, after reading the posts about church covenants I realized this past Sunday while sitting in church service that we have been fellowshipping with this local body of believers for over a year and have not “joined” yet. To me this has become an outdated concept and there are other reasons, some things that I see that this local body is not walking in, that have kept me from committing my heart and life to these people. Although,clearly God has drawn us here and given us a love and desire to stay.
And so basically God revealed to me, in part through this blog, that I have been using these wonderful people for spiritual sustenance and fellowship without being willing to fully give my heart to them,to commit in the covenant sense. And I have been holding my perceived flaws against them while having loads of my own flaws. I realized that if “joining” the church is in some way a symbol of being willing to submit my heart and life, to come under a covenant with them, then I should lay down my pride and petty arrogance and stop using them, die to myself and be joined to them.
Its a wonder that I could know what I know about the power of a covenant relationship and still not get it on this level. Thanks again for writing!
Mary,
I appreciate your humility and willingness to think through the meaning and implications of being in a covenant relationship with other believers. I believe you’re moving in the right direction. The Lord be with you!
Be careful, Barry. “If we walk in the light as He is in the light, we have fellowship one with another and the blood of Jesus Christ His son cleanses us from all sin.” F James